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What can I do with toiletries I’ve started?

I have 100s of bottles of shower gel, body lotion, shampoo etc. Enough to last me for the next 5 years at least. The trouble is, my skin is very sensitive and most irritates me. I am having a massive clear out and I don’t know what to do with it all.

The unopened bottles I can give to a charity shop but quite a few of them have been started.

I intend to offer them to friends and family but have too many to do this with all of them.

Has anyone any ideas? Any UK charities that could use them?

All help greatly appreciated!

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Day 3

Just a quick post for now.

My 3 things I have got rid of today are:

2 items of kid’s clothing – recycled. Most of my children’s outgrown clothes are not in a good enough state to be donated to a charity shop. Goodness knows how they manage to destroy them so effectively.

1 extremely old mobile phone. I tried to donate this online but it is so ancient I couldn’t find a charity that could use it so I have ended up sending it for recycling.

I will be adding photographs of my cluttered home, room by room to shame me into keeping going.

1st one: Entrance Hall.

It often actually looks a lot worse than this photo!entrance hall

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Day 2 of de-clutter

Today I have put two items of clothing which my children have outgrown and worn out into the bag for the clothing recycling bin at my local Waitrose. I already have more children’s clothes sorted out ready to go and will take them when I next go into town.

Living with much less stuff is one of my goals. I feel that it will simplify my life in several ways:

  • I won’t spend so long looking for things in my chaotic house.
  • Having lots of stuff does not make me happy
  • A cluttered house makes a cluttered mind.
  • It is pointless keeping things which are of no use to me but could be extremely useful to someone else.
  • Keeping things for sentimental reasons does not help me to remember the people who they came from. I can hold on to their memories without holding on to their stuff.
  • Having lots of stuff makes me appear successful but does not actually make me successful – the opposite is actually true.
  • I am not my stuff

“Have nothing in your house that you do not know to be useful, or believe to be beautiful.” – William Morris


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Well, here goes!


My first post – I doubt whether anyone else will be interested but, just in case, I should introduce myself.

I’m a 49 year old woman, living in Norfolk in the UK. I am married with 5 children – 4 girls and 1 boy – 22, 21, 8 and 6 year old twins.

My husband and I run our own business supplying corrugated cardboard packaging to manufacturers and other companies in many different industries. He does the sales and I do the accounts. We also employ 3 other people.

We have 3 dogs and live in a rural semi-detached cottage with a couple of acres of land.

For some time now I have been thinking that I need to change the way I live my life. For as long as I can remember I have put the needs of others before my own. I am a chronic people-pleaser always agreeing to do what other people ask of me, even if that goes against my own wellbeing. This way of being has become so ingrained that I no longer really know what my own passions are. It has even affected
my health.

I have been reading the posts by minimalists such as Leo Babauta ( and Joshua Fields Milburn and Ryan Nicodemus ( and quite a lot of what they talk about resonates with me.

I have therefore decided that I will start to get where I want to be (wherever that is) by reducing the amount of  ‘stuff’ in my life. Rather than keep thinking about what it is I want to achieve I will ‘just do it’.

So, I have started a 30 day declutter plan as suggested by The minimalists:

Day one – get rid of 1 thing, day two – get rid of 2 things, day 3 – get rid of 3 things and so on up to day thirty – get rid of 30 things. By the end of the 30 days I will have got rid of over 600 items from my home which I no longer need or want. I will try and donate, give away, sell and, as a last resort, recycle everything.

I will post here each day to try and keep me accountable and motivated.

Today  – day one – I have thrown away a chipped ramekin dish which I have no idea why I was keeping. It was so badly damaged that unfortunately it has had to go into landfill.

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